Friend Mirror
A report comparing your view of your social reputation with a real friend's view, gap by gap.
How does a real friend see your social reputation compared to how you see it? Your self-view is compared with how the people you invite see you through a short questionnaire of four minutes at most, and you receive a reading for each dimension with the size and direction of the gap, the signal quality and the number of raters. No result appears before at least one rater respond.
What's included
- Learn the real difference between your social reputation as you see it and how a friend who knows you outside work sees it
- Identify which behavioral dimensions stay stable across different friends and which shift by friendship context
- Get a realistic basis for understanding your real social effect instead of relying on your own self-image alone
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Frequently asked questions
Will my friend know that I saw their specific response?
Yes. This pattern is called the named dyad -- it never promises hidden identity, because you invited them by name in the first place. Your friend knows from the start, before they begin answering, that you will know they were the one who answered, even if they choose not to display their name inside the report itself.
How many friends can I invite?
At least one friend, up to three friends if you want to see more than one perspective. Each invited friend result is shown independently alongside the others, not blended into a single average that hides the differences between them.
Does my friend see my personal result?
No, never. Your friend completes a short questionnaire about you only and receives no report, link, or result in return -- neither now nor later. This is stated clearly in the invite text they receive before they begin.
How accurate and reliable is this analysis?
Its reliability is shown dimension by dimension, not as one blended number. When your invited friends readings agree on a given dimension, it is shown to you as a reliable signal; when they diverge sharply, you are told that plainly -- the variance itself is information about how your picture shifts by friendship circle, not a measurement error.
Who benefits most from this analysis?
Anyone who senses a gap between their inner sense of self and how friends respond to them, anyone who wants a more accurate understanding of how they are socially perceived, and anyone who wants to stop guessing about their effect on the people closest to them.
How long until my result appears?
There is no fixed number -- it depends on how quickly the invited friend responds. In practice this usually falls between one and fourteen days, and the invite link stays valid for a full 14 days.
Can I invite the same rater again later to measure change?
Yes, and this fits this product particularly well -- re-invite the same friend after a few months of working on the development areas the report revealed, and compare the new result to this one to see whether the gap actually narrowed. The comparison is not computed automatically; you are the one who reads the difference between two separate reports.
What if two invited friends contradict each other?
This actually happens and is not a measurement error. When two invited friends sharply disagree on a given dimension, it often means your social picture genuinely shifts depending on the nature of each friendship circle -- practical information worth exploring, not worrying about, and it is explicitly classified in your report as a disagreement worth your curiosity.
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